Arguments: How to Avoid Them
Words of Wisdom Most arguments start and end because both parties come to the table with a disagreement, and with absolutely no desire to change, even if they are proven wrong. Settling an argument can best be settled if those involved begin the argument by first agreeing on a couple of aspects that will put them on the same page from the beginning. Following is a basic outline which can be used to solve almost any argument. State what the problem is. (In most cases, both parties involved will agree here.) State the desired result. (Again, both parties should still be in agreement.) State your actions taken to resolve the issue. (Here is where the disagreements will begin. In this situation, both involved should state the actions they are taking to resolve the problem without insinuating superiority, and without condemning the other’s solution. This isn’t the time to begin ...